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Monday, August 30, 2010
LIE: A 'Nice Guy' is a Whiny Self-Serving Manipulative Man
Feminists (and others) claim that a "nice-guy" is actually a self-serving, whiny, manipulative man that attributes his lack of success with women to his self-proclaimed kindness.
From a standard Dictionary:
Nice: -adjective, nic -er, nic -est
1. pleasing; agreeable; delightful: a nice visit.
2. amiably pleasant; kind: They are always nice to strangers.
1. Informal. A man or a boy; fellow: He's a nice guy.
So, a "Nice Guy" is a pleasing, agreeable, delightful man or boy.
Upon hearing the phrase, "nice guys finish last", the feminists (and others) decided to pervert the term "nice guy" to mean something derogatory.
Just like "Rule of Thumb", the feminists have taken a common phrase, and perverted it to mean something that is demonizing to men.
Instead of meaning a pleasing, agreeable, delightful man or boy, they have decided that a "nice guy" is actually a self-serving, whining, manipulative man who claims that his lack of success with women is due to his self-proclaimed kindness.
The perversion in action:
MAN: I'd like you to meet Bill, he is a real nice guy.
WOMAN: No thanks, I have met enough self-serving, whining, manipulative men already.
The funny thing is: To discredit the phrase, "nice guys finish last" would not be terribly difficult, simply conduct a study:
Clearly define what behaviors and character traits qualify as "nice".
Find a random sample of men.
Clearly define what qualifies as being "successful with women".
Determine which men are "nice" and which are not.
Compare the intimate habits of the "nice" men with the other men.
To the best of my knowledge, no such study has ever been done.
Lack of research does not stop feminism!
Rather than conduct a study to validate or invalidate the phrase, "nice guys finish last", the feminists have decided to pervert the English language.
Maybe the phrase is true?
Whether it is true or not is irrelevant, a "nice guy" is a pleasing, agreeable, delightful man or boy.
You can find examples of the perversion in action at:
heartless-bitches - Be sure to read through the whole section - notice the contradictions and flagrant misuse of the term "nice"!
AND manhood101 - no, you are not hallucinating!
The fact that there are two web-pages, run by supposedly different people, show that this nonsense is being taught in schools - most likely college campuses.
When the word "nice" is used before the word "guy" it now means something derogatory. When it is used before any other word, "nice times", "nice woman", "nice dog", "nice meal"... it means something positive. When it is used before "guy" it is bad.